Wrong blames can kill a life
To blame means to accuse someone of doing something wrong. It is
very easy to put blame on a person when things begin going wrong
and hammer that person left and right for being responsible for
all the mess. Let us look at this further.
Sometimes, in our personal relationships, when we say that
things are in mess, the truth may be different. The situation
may not be messy, but our viewpoint may have become messy. What
we call as going wrong may indeed be going wrong, but not in the
way we look at it. Let me try to explain. Some of us lie. We get
caught, or feel guilty. We blame someone for exposing our lie
and making a mess of something good. Can a lie be good? We
wished our lies to flourish and keep us safe from the bitterness
of truth, but our comfort zone got broken because of the
exposure. Is this bad? Or our viewpoint was wrong to begin with?
When we think more, we find that truth may be very bitter and
highly discomforting, but it is always better than a lie. Is it
correct to blame a person who exposed our lies? But we do that.
Blame the other person for making us face the music. What the
other person did was correct but since it hurts us, we accuse.
Let me tell you something. What if someone accuses you of crimes
never committed by you? What if the accuser himself/herself was
the guilty party, but targeted you because you are a soft
target? Between a couple this happens. If one of the partners is
a compassionate person, the other partner can develop the habit
of blaming him/her all the time of all the crimes realizing
well, that no retaliation will occur.
Many of us act like brutes at times and then we suffer in the
guilt for a lifetime. Some of us, who are evil people never,
suffer any guilt. But some of us carry the guilt of having done
something wrong forever in our life. This guilt will never go,
because the deed was indeed done. Why not to desist doing wrong?
Why to travel on a wrong path? Why to torture others with blames
that they never deserve? Every animal teaches us that it acts
precisely as planned by nature. Only we human beings are
confused about ourselves, probably because we are intelligent.
Please view some of these peaceful fishes that swim without any
care in the world. They are in bliss because they are not
intelligent like us. Screensaver - Dolphinz , Screensaver - Aqua Panorama