The Power of Positive Criticism

No more is success limited to intelligence in the field of academics; in fact it is less of it. What has become more crucial is the level of emotional intelligence that sustains your success not just in your work life but in your personal and social life as well. So this book attempts to showcase the value of criticism to help develop and evolve, while guiding you through the process of learning, growth and success. Often criticism takes on a negative connotation and is viewed as unhealthy. However, Hendrie Weisinger, who is a leading authority on emotional intelligence and anger management, highlights how well-intended positive criticism can help and guide us on the path to greater self- awareness, a vital element of emotional intelligence. The author stresses on the fact that constructive criticism primarily involves weighing the merits and demerits of a situation and then evaluating dispassionately on the means and methods for improvement. The book underlines the need for understanding the perspective and motive of the recipient upon whom the criticism is directed. Also the need for exercising care and caution in framing the language of criticism by avoiding negatives, and offering effective solutions to problems are other points covered in the book. Critics can thus take on a mentoring role by engaging the person under the scanner in a partnership fold, so there is mutual respect and understanding to obtain optimum results. Criticism need not degenerate into acrimony; they have a very useful role to play if they are critically weighed and dispassionately judged rather than reacting emotionally. Constructive criticism is one that never attacks the person but rather helps in focusing on the problem and the weaknesses and infirmities in the actions undertaken. Positive criticism can indeed be of great value if it is received in the proper spirit and acted upon accordingly. With elemental suggestions and easy-to-implement simple methods, the author weaves a highly readable book for everyone to read. Any reader who wants to sincerely improve and gain better self control will indeed find this book highly useful.