The Secret behind Power Attraction in Men - Always Be Busy
One of my other cardinal rules before meeting a woman is that I
always make it appear, as my "second " priority - the first
being my work, my own life. Imagine you are in a coffee shop,
waiting for your appointment with her. Now how would you like
her to see you when she walks in? Staring at the door, looking
lost and yearning to have that first glimpse of her? Definitely
not.
Act busy. You could be speaking on phone, working on your
palm-top, writing down something, whatever, but busy. Because
you must portray that your life was truly interesting before she
came along. When you act busy, you give out the impression that
there are enough things happening in your life and she just
"happened" to board this carriage. And you are strictly not
looking forward to catching her apron strings and latch on to
her emotionally or in any other way.
In case you are meeting her in an indoor location like a store,
make sure that you have something to get pre-occupied with in
that place. Make her work for your attention. If you are at a
place, where none of these activities is possible or
permissible, start a conversation with a stranger! If it's a
woman, better it is.
Don't give the impression that you are trying to be
extra-familiar with her, but just plain friendly conversation is
what you should be doing. Carry a book or a magazine always with
you. These things come very handy when waiting for someone. But
be careful. Never think she will find you enigmatic and charming
if she finds you reading Navy Seals' books. Carry mature, adult
stuff like People or Newsweek. These seemingly small details
carry a lot of weight in creating impressions.
One more pivotal rule is that while choosing activities that you
wish to share with her, choose only those, which you were doing
without her in any case. As if, you have just asked for her
company, on that specific date, otherwise you would have done it
anyway.
This demonstrates, most importantly, that you have a life of
your own about which you are mighty proud. And secondly, you
really don't need her, she just happened to be there. If you're
golfing, take her to the course, if you're rock climbing take
her along, if boxing is your hobby invite her to watch some
matches, and the list goes on.