The Alluring Impression of Men's Sounds & Smells - the Naked
Truth in Dating
Personal hygiene and many of our mannerisms - we somehow take
these aspects too much for granted. I am including this topic
here primarily because I realize that too many of us are not
even aware that certain very subtle signals that we give out in
terms of sounds and smells, play a very important role in making
us attractive or otherwise. For instance, here are a few
voluntary and involuntary sounds we make, which are terribly
disgusting to women and make us very unacceptable to them:
* Burping: Yes, it happens normally after a heavy meal. But
refrain, even at the most casual get-togethers. If you find it
coming, excuse yourself politely and go out and release yourself.
* Snorting, snoring and other throat related noises: Control
them or cure them. They act as lady-repellants.
* Farting: Disgusting, yet such a natural physiological
phenomenon. And it is controllable - through proper medication
and diet control. Just a wee bit of care for your health, and
you can manage to evade this horrible event.
* Breath: This is important. You can check if you have bad
breath just by licking your skin or smelling your saliva. Always
carry mouth-fresheners or chew mint occasionally (not gum).
* Foot odor: It can be so obnoxious that you can throw an entire
roomful of people out, the moment you open your shoes. Guys,
change your socks regularly and use shoe deodorizers. They are
easily available.
The other very successful and popular lady-repellant is your
body odor (B.O in short). If you do not want ladies (except
those living in underdeveloped countries) to appear within a
mile radius, go ahead and stay with your B.O. Guys, have a good
bath regularly. Use Deodorants for your armpits and
antiperspirants, if you sweat like a horse. There are some men
who are used to having a "Gypsy Bath" - meaning covering up
their stinks with perfumes, colognes, body sprays and
after-shaves. Remember these can never fully paralyze your own
B.O.
Practice having good showers, more so, if you are living in a
tropical climate. I remember working with a guy, who used to
spray Brut allover his clothes - so much so every time he walked
past, you would imagine a carcass van just went by. I did talk
to him about improving his personal hygiene, but then, you would
hardly find anyone giving you advice on these issues. Because it
is such a delicate and personal subject not many people wish to
discuss about it. You have to take care of it yourself.
In case you use cologne or an after-shave, use good,
high-quality brands. Some perfumes suit particular bodies. Try
and find out which one suit you best. And for heavens' sake use
little. There are some men, who move about smelling like a
room-deodorant. Calvin Klein brands are used by many men but
there are many unique low-publicized brands, which are equally
good and lasting. Ideally your woman should smell you when she
gets close to you, not making a beeline for the door to run away
from the perfume.