O.S.C.A.R.
O.S.C.A.R.
Your favorite movie star just won the Oscar for "Best Actor",
considered the crowning achievement for film actors. He stands
before his peers, the gold statuette in hand, all lights and all
eyes on him. The crowd quiets as he begins his speech. "I'd like
to thank my parents for teaching me to believe in myself. Thank
you, Mom and Dad."
Belief in self. What does that mean... exactly?
Clear-cut evidence shows that parents who communicate the
belief, "I know you can," produce children with an "I can do
it!" attitude.
How do parents raise children who believe in themselves?
O: Opportunities to try something new helps children experience
success with new challenges.
S: Steer clear of negative labels that diminish self-esteem.
C: Confident children learn from both successes and failures.
Encourage children to work past difficult times through
supportive listening and problem-solving.
A: Allow children to make some choices and decisions that are
appropriate for their age and abilities. This helps develop
responsibility as well as confidence.
R: Respond to your child's interests and efforts with
appreciation rather than just praise. Applaud the steps along
the way to the goal.
The O.S.C.A.R. for "Best Direction of a Child's Life" is hereby
awarded to all parents who enrich their child's life to help
them become the best they can be!