What do you do when you have been betrayed? How do you best respond? Our pride often gets in the way of a positive approach. This article describes the problem of betrayal and a way of breaking the cyle of negativity.
What do you do when you have been betrayed? How do you respond?
Examples of betrayal: your partner cheats on you, your friend lies to you, you are the victim of gossip, your father ignores you, your mother ignores you, a teacher yells at you, your boss passes you over for a promotion that you have definitely earned, your best friend dismisses you, your children lie to you, and so forth. Each of these examples has to do with a breach of trust.
Trust is about consistency and predictability. Trust occurs as a result of two people learning that each other are trustworthy- that they won