Imagine you are entering in the dark room, what is the first thing to do.......that's right, you turn a light switch on.

In order for the bulb to lit the switch has to be connected.Without connection the circuit is called open or incomplete, that bulb will not lit.

Just as in an open circuit where a bulb is disconnected from the source so is the mind of the lonely person.

The true source of happiness, well being etc is disconnected from that person.

The true source can not be found elsewhere but in the mind.

When people are in this state of mind they can not see anything good because the circuit is open.There is no light to see good things.Everything is dark,really dark.

Some people go out to look for somebody to fill the void but ending up in disappointment because they can't see......

We need light to see right!

As we all know that the smartest thing to do is to turn that light on by first re examine ourselves,to look for our core values .

what we really like to do?

Do we like music, learning new things, what about our hobbies etc.

Then we have to pull those good memories and use them to fight against the current situation.These good memories will act as a link to connect us to our source of love, friendship etc

There is a little trick to do this, it is the power of imagination.

Einstein said, "imagination is more powerful than knowledge".

Now I know there are some of you who say, "I can't imagine". well, the truth is, we do imagination every day.

If you don't believe that, let me asked you, what color did you wear yesterday?.......

How did you know.............Don't tell me you haven't imagined.

There is one fundamental mind secret, "it can not distinguish between the real experience and the pictures or imagination in the mind.

This is the reason why some people cry when they watch a sad movie. These people know for a fact that what they watch is not real but their unconscious mind does not know and guess what they weep.

We can use this to our advantage to trick our mind when we feel lonely. To do this, you need to find a quiet place,like your bedroom close your eyes and..

Remember the time when you felt so strong emotionally, may be you were so friendly or the time you archived your goals etc.

See yourself in that situation may be that laugh or smile from your friends, just imagine........

How do you feel!

Imagine having the same experience right now,

Do that every day and your mind will be conditioned to have good experiences.

Your bulb will start to lit, you will start to see the light and that dark thing called "loneliness" will start to disappear.

At this point it will be easier for you to be connected to other people.

Sincerely,

Timeo Busyanya

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This article is written by Timeo Busyanya. The Author is dedicated to improve self image of the citizens of the planet Earth. He provides a free courseat at: http://www.lonelyou.com