Many of you guys have had the experience of having a woman answer your online dating profile, or reply to an email you sent her after she gave you her email address, only to be constantly frustrated by not being able to get her on the phone. I used to have this problem, but luckily I discovered a step by step approach that puts an end to all that nonsense for good. Today I'm going to reveal that to you.

Let's start with a woman who answers your online dating profile. If you don't get her on the phone soon, you'll become just another online fantasy guy she loves emailing but has no intention of ever meeting in person. So the first thing to do is realize that the purpose of your communication with her is to get her on the phone as quickly as possible.

The best way to do this is to actually set it up before she even responds to your online dating profile. Here's what to do: in your profile, you need to have language that makes it perfectly clear you are NOT interested in emailing back and forth, that you're on here to meet in person.

Here's what I say in mine: "One more thing: I'm interested in meeting in person, not wasting time with IM's and emails back and forth. If you're on here looking for online pen pals, I'm not the guy for you. If, however, you're adventurous enough to take a chance and meet a guy like me in the real world, then you and I just might get along just fine-I'd love to hear from you."

That's all it takes. When she emails me she instantly knows I'm different from all the other guys out there, and that I set the authority frame early on- she knows if she wants to have an interaction with me, not a typical, boring and "going-nowhere-fast" online dating experience, it will be in person. She wouldn't have answered the ad otherwise.

When she writes me, I always reply back, briefly commenting on what she wrote, asking her a question that requires an in depth answer (i.e. "What do you enjoy most about