Once you have recovered from the euphoria of the proposal to hold a civil partnership ceremony, you need start preparing for the big day. There is a lot more to it than you think but if you make a month-by-month countdown plan it won't seem quite so stressful.

Of course, you can call on the help of a wedding planner who will orchestrate the event for you. Some will work within your budget and others charge a fortune. Services include finding a venue and sourcing suppliers such as photographers, florists and cars. They will often take the strain on the actual day by liaising with suppliers, guests and the venue.

If you opt to organise the event yourself, here are some tips for what you need to think about in the build up to the big day.

Getting started

Tell your friends and family about your news, maybe put an announcement in the press and start to think about whether you want a best man or woman - it's nice to ask them when you tell them your news.

On the financial front, you need to think about setting a budget. The average wedding last year cost