Part of growing up and growing away from you means that children meet with many people who can be discouraging or negative toward them. Nitpickers, fault-finders and verbal bullies can be found in any playground. They exist in many families too.

Some kids have deflon-coated hides and can easily brush off criticism or discouragement. Most children, like adults, can be stung by discouragement. Receive enough of it and their self-esteem takes a dive and they begin to take fewer risks for fear of being criticised for making mistakes.

As a parent you can help children deal with discouraging or disparaging experiences and remarks. Here are five ideas that may help you help children deal with discouragement:

a) Tell your children they don