You're sipping a cappuccino on a first date. The conversation goes well and you're enjoying yourself. Then, that nerve-wracking moment arrives when the check arrives. What's a woman to do?

Keep it in your purse - your wallet that is.

The question of who should pay is the most frequently discussed topic for women. While this advice may seem old fashioned, for the first few dates, allow the man pay.

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