My friend Carmen Sutra and I were having tea before the band came on at "The Witches Brew." Out of the blue she asked, "Have you ever read any of those on-line sex surveys?" Carmen has a lovely New Delhi accent and the kind of voice that would make almost any man say yes, but I said "No, should I?"

"Oh, yes! You would be surprised at what many men and women would say yes to--toys, threesomes, moonlit beaches--it