Whenever things go wrong, who is at fault? Some people look for anyone to blame but themselves. That generally causes problems. But equally, if not more problematic is the habit of blaming yourself. Whenever something happens, do you think about how you screwed up? Do you look to see how you are ruining things for other people? Low self image, which goes hand in hand with depression at times, can lead you to blaming yourself for most things. No matter what happens, you start looking for reasons why it is your fault instead of someone else