All married couples face problems from time to time. Some couples have more problems than other couples, and sometimes these problems become major issues within the marriage. Issues that cause the eventual separation and divorce of the couple. When husband and wife feel they cannot resolve the problems themselves, they will sometimes turn to third party professionals for help. Sometimes the couple turns to a marriage counselor for advice and help in saving the marriage.

Some critics of counseling have made the argument that marriage counseling actually does more harm than good to relationships that are on the rocks. The problem is not that counseling itself is bad. Anything that promotes better communication between a husband and wife can be a good thing. Instead, there can be a problem with the counselor herself. Specifically, the counselor