Spending an evening together seems like a simple idea but so many things can go wrong and ruin the best of intentions. So plan ahead to make the evening special.

1. The most important thing to do is plan.

2. Think carefully about what your partner would like, what pleases him or her most. The more you think of how to surprise and delight them, the more you will be guaranteed a sure fire winner of an evening.

3. I suggest Love Notes first, text your lover with saucy messages to get them in the mood. If that's not possible leave little written messages where you know they will find them. For her - in her underwear drawer, on her pillow, in her purse. For him - in his trouser pocket, in his wallet, on the car steering wheel. These messages need to be left at least in the morning so your partner knows to expect something but doesn