Our kids are a mess and it can be prevented. The first 5 years are critical. I cannot believe the new parents of today. Everyday you see parents with their kids running around in stores and restaurants like wild animals. Talking back and debating with their parents about everything under the sun. Then when the kids get older, they wonder why they cannot control or communicated with them.

The first 5 years are critical, if you determine your expectations at the beginning, the future with your kids will be easier.

Never debate, never waiver, always loves and you are not their friend, you are their model. Once you show any sign that the rules can be bent or your punishments can be avoided, you have lost the battle.

If you can hold your ground, be the enforcer and send the signal to your kids in the first 5 years that it