Do you struggle to find great gift ideas? Are you stuck without a gift at the last minute? I understand your frustration and am here to help! I've put together 9 tips to help you select the perfect gift.

So grab a cup of coffee, relax, and start shopping!

1.Relax: Stress only make matters worse. Stop and take a deep breath before starting. It will help you refocus and reenergize!

2.Think about the recipient: Ask yourself what makes this person happy. What are their hobbies and interests?

3.Seek outside help: Don't be afraid to talk to the people who know the recipient best. They're likely to have great suggestions. Great ideas come from everywhere.

4.Ask why: The gift you choose should match the occasion. You don't give a food processor on Valentines Day.

5.Set your budget: It's important to know ahead of time how much you want to spend. As you search for your gift, you can select gifts within your price range.

6.Go surfing: Shop on your time while relaxing at home. The Web offers a wide range of choices and gift ideas to match the person's interests.

7.Dress it up: If you decide to purchase a gift certificate, gift baskets, subscription or money, add a special note, or wrap it in an unusual way.

8.Get personal: If you have time, a personalized gift tells the person that you thought ahead of time to find a gift just for them.

9.Stick with the staples: If you don't know the person well or are going to someone's home for the first time, traditional gifts of wine, food, candles, flowers, coffees or teas are foolproof.

I hope these 9 tips will help make your next gift a perfect 10! Feel free to share this with others, so they can also benefit.

Pat Brill is a co-founder of http://www.silkbow.com, a FREE service that offers convenient gift shopping, multiple selection options and helpful newsletters that will address your life and challenges as a mom. We make gift giving an easy, enjoyable experience.