"The Danger in being a concubine"
Most girls in a relationship have chosen to be substitutes rather than main girlfriends. Some of them I have spoken to say that the men whom they are involved with are not too demanding and can take care of their needs better than some guys would if they were with them. Some say they hope to dethrone the main girlfriend and take the position.
A girl who is in such a relationship should know that she is not safe as she's just on a cliffhanger, it's easier for her to fall off than for the main girlfriend to be sent away.
Most of you girls believe that one day, it would be your turn to be the main lover but you are wrong. Out of 10 of such relationships, only 1 of it actually happens, so the risk is greater than the gain and I don't see any reason why one should get involved in such a fruitless relationship.
I have seen many men who are involved in a romantic relationship actually deviate or stray and flirt with other girls and in the end, they always returned to their original girlfriends rather than the ones they flirted with. Girls, you are at a greater risk of loosing than winning so STOP that dangerous game NOW!
People who flirt continuously, it's being shown that they do suffer from a complex either at present or in the past and use this medium to show that they are sexier and hotter than any other and can get any man of their dreams. This feeling of inferiority has gotten a lot of people into trouble and the irony of it all is that it can be cured within a twinkle of an eye.
Wouldn't you be interested in knowing how it could be cured? Have you evaluated your life and seen where it is that you went wrong? Have you being nursing the idea of stealing another girls man? I can assure you that if you do steal another girl's man, that same man would be stolen from you and there's nothing you can do to stop it.
Have you really thought of getting a "fresh man" of your choice? The one you could be proud of and showcase? Do you know how many men out there really need you and would want to do anything to have you? Did you look across the window this morning to see them? if you look CAREFULLY, I am assuring you this, you would SEE!
Take sometime to evaluate your life, evaluate the people around you and make a careful selection. There are lovely guys in your work place, the church, social gatherings, friends' brothers, so many of them to choose from, all you need now is to say this is whom I want and he would be yours after doing the necessary things to woo him over. Please be careful when wooing him so it doesn't seem as though you're so desperate, he'll either run away or just use and dump you. So girl, play it SMART!
With this, I know you have a start in restructuring your love life and take it to any level you choose to, the choice is yours. GOOD LUCK!
Donald A.
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