Abusive behavior can take many forms: emotional, physical, financial, sexual etc. Those who engage in it often fail to recognize the effects that such behavior has on themselves.

For instance when one chooses to be abusive towards someone else they are in turn undermining their own integrity, self esteem and self worth.

Although in the heat of the moment they may not recognize these effects their subsequent feelings about themselves will declare themselves as painful feelings of guilt, self loathing, self hatred, anger, frustration, a sense of being out of control, a sense of helplessness, and feelings of worthlessness.

Such feelings are so intoerable to the individual that they need to distract themselves from them. This is done by projecting the feelings onto others and then by attacking them through further abusive behaviors. Of course this only repeats the cycle and deepens the emotional pain they harbor inside themselves.

If allowed to continue such individuals find themselves resorting to more violent unconsciously driven self sabotaging behaviors whose aim is to try to eliminate the source of the problem, them.

In other words they engage in high risk violence where they might get seriously hurt or killed. The unconscious belief is that by doing so they will feel relieved and will be able to end the cycle of abuse once and for all. This of course is not an answer.

Unfortunately such individuals usually start down this road after having beed abused themselves as young children. By the time they are grown adults they have accumulated a large amount of emotional trauma in their minds/bodies and their tolerance for the pain inside is very low.

The only way to help such individuals break the vicious cycle of abuse, self abuse and self destruction is to help them release once and for all the memories of trauma they have experienced, and the memories of abuse they have inflicted on others and on themselves.

A new modality called the Mind Resonance Process(TM) (MRP) has been shown to effect powerful and permanent release in the traumatic memories of such individuals with remarkable shifts in self esteem, self control, and self worth.

Dr. Nick Arrizza is trained in Chemical Engineering, Business Management & Leadership, Medicine and Psychiatry. He is an Energy Psychiatrist, Healer, Key Note Speaker, Editor of a New Ezine Called "Spirituality And Science" (which is requesting high quality article submissions) Author of "Esteem for the Self: A Manual for Personal Transformation" (available in ebook format on his web site), Stress Management Coach, Peak Performance Coach & Energy Medicine Researcher, Specializes in Life and Executive Performance Coaching, is the Developer of a powerful new tool called the Mind Resonance Process(TM) that helps build physical, emotional, mental and spiritual well being by helping to permanently release negative beliefs, emotions, perceptions and memories. He holds live workshops, international telephone coaching sessions and international teleconference workshops on Physical, Emotional, Mental and Spiritual Well Being http://www.telecoaching4u.com