Holistic Specifics and BodyMind Connection believes that the personality is developed as the EGO develops. It starts with the initial state of pure essence, and grows into the being that you decide to show to the world as the real you.

Our beliefs guide us through life. Understanding how these beliefs are created can give us permission to go back, challenge the disabling beliefs and reinforce the enabling ones. Remember that any learned behavior can be unlearned. New information and material can replace anything that originally existed.

In the beginning: At some point during gestation, the Spirit/ the Soul/ the Divine enters into the organism and a human being becomes present. At this point you the being is a diamond in the rough. In this state there is total bliss, total purity, no ego, no negativity, and no personality. Gene traits and physical patterns due to DNA will determine our physical body, but the mind remains un-programmed. While in the womb, at some point, the baby will experience vibrations and sounds. Some will be pleasant, some will be harsh. The baby will absorb nutrients that the mother ingests. These can be pleasant or cause irritability and discomfort. The emotional learning process (what we feel) begins in the womb. The process begins as an emotional knowing rather that an intellectual knowing. These are almost impossible to recall because they are not remembered as thought or processed memories. When we do recall them, they come up as emotions. We don