Teaching Children to Journal

This is a subject near and dear to my heart only because I am a dad who is hopelessly crazy about his children. Yes, I admit it, I admit it, I'm a doting dad! I can't help myself. I have four children each with different personalities (surprise, surprise) and only one of them really doesn't care much for writing. It seems that whenever I was writing in my journal one or all of my children were hanging around. My oldest daughter, Sandra, used to come into my study and watch me either do research or writing of some kind. I was in graduate school studying for my PhD, and my children would often come and ask me about what I was reading or writing. Sandra always seemed to be fascinated with academic things, but particularly reading and writing. She is currently attending Central Michigan University with the hopes of one day getting her PhD in Literature. She loves to write, and I am overwhelmed by having been able to contribute to her love for the written word. She wrote me a letter from college a couple of weeks ago and had this to say. "I just wanted to drop you a note to thank you for all that you've done for me throughout the years. You have taught me a great deal that I am so grateful for. I credit my love for the written word to your influence and to God. You have helped instill in me a rare quality of true passion for the value of the intellect. I'll be praying for you and thinking of you, Love, Sandra Joy" This comes after more than two years of virtually no communication with her. We had a falling out two years ago, that has since been redeemed and healed. How grateful I am. This all boils down to teaching by example, does it not? Children will typically imitate their parents, and this is the most important thing to remember when attempting to pass things on. I have always believed that writing (particularly journaling) clarifies our hearts and souls. It is a way of bringing out those inner thoughts and feelings that help make us what we are. What better way to sharpen the mind and purify the soul than to dialog with yourself about your life and where it is going, what you've learned and wisdom gained? All of this to say, what better gift to pass onto our children (or any children in your life) than gifts that will help them develop great inner qualities of mind and spirit? All the money in the world could never buy the gift we can give to children in the form of love for the written word.

I had the chance to pass journals out to my son Weston's class on the last day of school this year. The kids were thrilled and asked me many good questions about journaling. One child asked me what he should write, while another wanted to know how I got started. I enjoyed telling them about the importance of cultivating their thoughts even on simple things about which children think. One child thought she would write about how she felt about her cat dying and wanted to know how to start. So I gave her some lines to consider starting the process of reflection on how she felt. All it took was a line, "My cat died and I feel just awful about it. I miss her very much." She sat at her desk and by the time class ended, she had more than a page filled. It