I believe in second chances--especially for women turning 40.

Whenever I say "I believe in second chances" I'm reminded of the Kevin Kostner speech in Bull Durham--at least this part:

I believe in long, slow, deep, soft, wet kisses that last three days.

Because I especially believe that finding love is possible at any age--at 25 or 95. In my own journey toward my second chance, I changed husbands, religions, politics, states, careers, and along the way, I met my father for the first time.

But I