The longer you remain a Christian single, the more often you'll end up as a bridesmaid in your friends' weddings. You're probably familiar with this scenario: it's midnight on Friday night. You're just putting down your book and getting ready to turn off the lights and crawl into bed when the phone rings.

"Guess what?" your friend exclaims, "he proposed tonight! I'm getting married!" You feel mixed emotions at the news. Naturally you are excited for your friend, who finally broke out of the Christian single world and into married life, the life you have both been dreaming of together. But now you'll keep dreaming - with one less friend to share the misery with