Several years ago we were expecting our first-born and decided a difficult problem: where and how it would be better for him to come into the world? I wanted to give birth at home, probably, in water. Husband assured me that we still had time and that we should learn more about various variants of childbirth, not being in a hurry with the decision. We certainly wanted to be together, but romance of home (moreover, water) childbirth did not attract us. When my husband went deeply into all nuances and details, he categorically refused risking a baby