Learning to Let Go

Letting go is never easy, and yet there are times when all you could do is to let go. Although the thought of letting go (be it someone or something) brings panic and sadness, avoiding to think about it is not helpful.

When you are in a bad relationship, although you might not want to admit it, you will be able to sense that something is not right. Many people are confused or even upset when their relationships don't go as planned. It is normal for people to hang onto their relationships for as long as they can, even if their hearts know that it is not right.

After trying to sort things out with no avail, the last thing and the only thing you can do for a bad relationship is to let go. To let go is to accept that there is nothing else you could do to make the relationship better, to understand that things don't always happen as they are planned, to stop becoming obsessed, and to remember that nobody is at fault. Life is always filled with options and by letting go of the bad relationship, you now have new freedoms and opportunities. It's just a matter of time till you find the right person for yourself.

Nobody wants to say good-bye to the one they have loved, but there is a great comfort in knowing that some day, you will find someone to call your own again.

Shwe Darling