A root of bitterness can easily spring up in the marital relationship, as living within such close proximity of a person there are ample opportunities to be offended. If you are not careful offenses and neglect can sever you from meaningful relationship and thwart the marital union. A person who is bitter can respond in a number of ways from employing the cold shoulder treatment, to lashing out in anger, verbalizing profanity and obscenities, and at the emotional breaking point contemptfully resort to adultery to fully manifest their defiance.
Maintaining a good attitude and right mindset toward your spouse is work. Such mental exertion is not for the faint in heart. You have to be willing to fight for your marriage.
To sustain a loving, life-giving marriage both must be sober minded and alert to the seductions of the soul. Not only must you guard your own heart, but you must also discern the traps and snares that might beset your spouse when they are away from the house.
Most importantly happily and wholeheartedly attend to one another's needs emotional and physical to fill one another's love tank and fortify the union. Remember people don't typically get out of a Rolls Royce to ride in a VW. Neither do spouses wander away looking for hamburgers when they are being served filet mignon at home.
Therefore serve and feed one another's needs lest another does. Remember men if you don't take your wives out on a date, someone else will. Ladies, if you don't seduce your husband rest assured another woman will.
Men compliment your wives and affirm their beauty and exceptional qualities. The more you affirm women the more they open up like a flower unto you.
Ladies a man can be won by caring for him from his chest to his knees. He's rather simple. Feed him and make love to him.
Divorce is no fun. I have been there and experienced it myself. I know. It helps to remember the painful consequences of infidelity before you take the plunge into sexual immorality.
Among the many reasons to be faithful to your spouse and not cheat on them are as follows:
1.You might get dismembered, maimed or killed. John Bobbit