I often hear women say that they are in need of, praying for, or looking for a man. I see these same women get a man, but somehow things just do not work the way the want. As a result, the search begins once again. Some women may draw the conclusion that men are worthless, and that there is a chance they may never find one. I think it is more a matter of readiness, clarity of purpose, and timing.

If you are one of these women who is in search of a man, have you ever asked yourself why you want him? Do you need a male role model for your child? Do you want to have sex on a regular basis without feeling unsafe? Do you want someone to help pay the bills you have made? Do you want a boyfriend, so your friends will envy you? Do you want to go places and do things you