Speed Dating Tips: How to Make the Most of the Event

At speed dating events, there are two ways to meet new people. The obvious one is during the actual, pre-arranged mini-dates. The second and often forgotten, is during the before, after and break-time mingling, which can be equally valuable.

First, let's tackle the mini-dates. Smile, act interested, and make the time fun! Ask simple questions that will help uncover a person's passions. Since the time is short with each person, there is more to consider to read between the lines of your date's answers. Here are some things to think about:

  • Give your date a break in case of any nervousness.
  • Did the person show any passion in the responses?
  • Is s/he in touch with what is fun, what makes him/her happy, and how to relax?
  • Did the responses show any creativity, sense of adventure or humor?

    Of course, in evaluating the responses, you can also consider if the person likes to do some of the same things you enjoy, has desires that you respect, or even shares similar values.

    Next, think about the mingling time as another opportunity to connect. With 8 Minute Dating for example, you'll only meet eight potential partners. But often the events have more than sixteen participants (eight of each gender)