If you are in love with a married man, you really need to sit back and take in some good advice. There are typically two situations in which you may feel this way. In the first situation you may be in love with someone who is married, but may not be acting on it. When you are only at this stage in the game, you should try to get this person out of your mind. You may just feel like you need someone like this man. You may want the type of life he provides his wife with. You may not really be in love with him at all, but the idea of a man like him. So, back off and find a single guy before you go playing