Trust in the power of just one single sentence to get your child quickly back on track. When you are trying to get your children to pay better attention to their responsibilities, make a brief, very specific sentence your first and main strategy instead of revving up for the drain of debate, confrontation and consequencing.

You may want your child to settle down to homework, finish a chore, or make a better choice about something. It's the 'less is more' model. Just a few words can say everything that needs to be heard.

This straightforward strategy is particularly helpful when working with children and adults with ADHD, Autism and Asperger Syndrome.

The SSS Method

Create a Short Specific Statement that clearly guides your child to the behavior you want to see. Here are a few different sentence types for some typical situations:

Redirect.