Love may be blind but lovers should not always be blind to the misdemeanors of their loved ones especially when it already involves cheating. The spouse who has cheated on his partner may consider it just a harmless fling or a fleeting affair but no matter the degree of relationship he has had with another, it is still called cheating.

Cheating is the worst form of misconduct a spouse can commit against his partner as it is already consider a betrayal of the vows they took when they got married. The discovery of the act of cheating by the other spouse can either break the marriage or make it stronger depending on the strength of their love for one another.

No matter how two people love each other, their humanity and imperfection could not keep them from committing mistakes and hurting the other. Most people who cheat say they did not intend to cheat and to hurt the other spouse. The usual alibi is, it was not planned, it just happened.

While most people would want their relationships to be open, no one really wants to be told that he is being cheated upon. A spouse expects honesty from the other, but can he afford to accept the truth especially when it involves the deception of the other?

A person who suspects a cheating spouse would at first be in a state of denial. Of course, this is a normal reaction because no person wants to believe that the other spouse can cheat on him or her. The self denial goes on until such time when the little clues and the white lies become distinct and glaring that the spouse being cheated upon can no longer bear to keep the discovery to himself.

Tips on catching a cheating spouse

If you already suspect your spouse of cheating on you and you want to catch him, the best course of action is to keep quiet and not give the cheating spouse any hint of your suspicion. It will hurt to act like a stupid spouse but this attitude will allow your partner to be more careless about his deception .Never make an accusation unless you have solid evidence of your spouse