Ego and Controlling Strength of Character

So often we see incredible men of physical or mental strength unable to control their ego and strength of character and this is indeed a shame considering the value they bring to our society and civilization. Occasionally we see false strength of character, braggarts and those who lack self esteem hiding behind masks due to piss poor performance and often they too let their need to be recognized propel their mouths or public persona.

Often it is difficult in fact to tell who is real and simply speaking matter of factly about themselves and their abilities and who is pumping up their chests because they have little if any self-esteem inside and are experiencing a severe case of “imposter phenomena” and that is truly unfortunate. But let the record show that when we keep score in any endeavor we can easily separate the noise-makers from the winners.

If you are a winner I have some advice for you. I am sorry I have no advice for the losers, pretenders and/or “fake it until they make it” types. If you are indeed a winner, perhaps not by choice but solely on obvious abilities, hard work and strength of character you need to control that ego because there are so many weaklings, losers and pretenders out their who are so envious and jealous of your gifts, abilities, genetics or achievements you have secured thru maximum effort and hard work that they will cheat, lie and make up stories in order to make them selves look better.

Often those achievers have developed a strong ego will laugh at them as they lie and pretend. Perhaps it is better to simply smile at them and consider what a crappy life they are due to piss poor performance, lack of while and void of real manhood. Consider all this in 2006.

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