In order to Win MVP, you must learn to be confident. Learn to be comfortable in your own skin without being cocky or arrogant. Learn to communicate in deeper ways with your partner. If you already have deep relationships with other friends, use the same principals to obtain that same kind of intimacy with your loved one.

If you don't have deep relationships with other people in your life, learn how to do so. Take a communication class and read books on the subject, occasionally practicing in the mirror to feel more comfortable with communication. I know this may sound a little silly to you, but trust me, I have had many of my male and female friends use this technique to build their confidence.

Put little notes to yourself on your fridge, on your mirrors, in your car, on your computer, etc., that has positive affirmations about yourself. Even if you don't believe the statements yet, you will come to do so over time if you say them every time you pass by them. Use statements like: "I am a great communicator;" "I can succeed at learning to build a deeper relationship;" or "I am a valuable person on the playing field of love."

Learn to kiss the man or woman in your life so it will knock his / her socks off, but don't move to the next level. Learn to enjoy kissing for hours, just as you did before you became physically intimate. It will deepen your relationship.

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