How to shop for Christmas gifts
Okay. Christmas is coming, fast. It's time to panic. After all,
you don't want to relive last Christmas Eve. There you were, at
ten to five in the evening, standing in a large department
store, with two gifts still to buy and a distinct shortage of
cash. 'Never again!' you said at the time. Remember?
Here is a rough guide on how to shop for Christmas gifts:
1. Decide how much you can really afford to spend. Now, take 10%
off that figure for extras, like wrapping paper, ribbon, bows,
tags etc. Then, divide the sum remaining by the number of people
you will probably buy gifts for. Redistribute the money, so that
you allocate more to close friends and relatives and less to
distant ones. You now have a rough budget.
2. Identify whom, exactly, you are going to exchange gifts with.
There are few things worse in life than receiving a Christmas
gift from someone when you have not bought anything for them in
return. The slight embarrassment of determining this important
fact early on is much better than the bigger embarrassment
later. Refine your budget accordingly.
3. You may agree with some friends and relatives that a gift
exchange is not necessary. This might help both of you
significantly. Perhaps they are less well-off than you are, or
less mobile. Where such agreements are possible, refine your
budget accordingly.
4. Try to agree some financial boundaries with all those who you
do exchange gifts with. Again, put your embarrassment aside and
agree with Aunt Flo' not to spend more than x on each
other, an amount that both you and she can afford. Gain, and
give, a strong commitment not to exceed the agreed amount, under
any circumstances. Again, refine your budget accordingly.
5. Do ask indirectly, sometimes directly, what recipients would
like to receive as gifts. Every year, millions of unwanted gifts
are bought and given. Many end up in attics, charity shops or
landfill sites. In return, do drop hints and tell friends and
relatives directly what you would like in return. This process
need not dilute the gift exchange experience. By allowing some
scope for choice, it should enhance it.
6. Now, the hard work begins, especially for those who seem to
have everything they need, and don't know what they'd like
either. Well within the budget for that person, write down ideas
over several days. Think about their lifestyle, hobbies and
interests. Avoid clich