How to get women?
I was single for quite a while so I decided to put an advert in
a singles' column. A friend of mine also joined me so we had two
adverts running. I told most of my friends who were fascinated
to see how it went. Anyhow, I waited two weeks before my advert
appeared. It was one of those voicebox style services where you
dial a number to retrieve your messages. After 14 days, my
friend had one measly reply! Nothing to write home about!
However, my results were rather different. I had over 35 replies
to my one advert!!! I was stunned. Not only was I amazed at the
number of calls, but it highlighted just how easy it can be to
meet women, especially if our advert is worded correctly.What
was I going to do? I couldn't possibly see all 35 women - I just
didn't have the time. If you did want to see all of them, and
you met half that number for a second date, you would be going
out every day for over 52 days!
Well, I had 35 women to call and notes on each one. Most leave a
description of themselves to give you an idea of what they are
like. Furthermore, when you hear their voice you can get some
clues to what type of person they are, what class, etc.
Too Many Dates to See!!!
Anyhow, I started rating these women according to my personal
preference - I had to have some way of prioritising my dates! I
was aged 30 at the time and my replies ranged from 18 to 34. My
preference has been for younger women so they went to the top of
the list. But when you have 9 girls of 25 or under, you have to
prioritise again!!! So, for me it was location. Those who lived
closest to me got first choice.
OK, so I've got my names and telephone numbers of 35 dates,
together with a brief description of what they are like. They
are put in order so I know who I am going to ring first. But
what am I going to say? How would I introduce myself to make the
best possible impression?
As it happens, my initial calls were fine. My dates were as
happy to hear from me as I was to talk to them. After all, they
replied to me! However, after phoning these 35 women (and more
later on) I have learnt what to talk about, what works and what
doesn't. You will benefit from this experience in later chapters.
I Used to Spend Lonely Nights In
Before my advert, I used to spend my evenings in, perhaps with a
friend occasionally coming over for a coffee. I was so bored
that I was hiring a video nearly every night. Also, I craved for
female company and the affection that often came with it. But I
wasn't meeting ANYONE! I rarely went out and even if I did I
doubt I would have the courage to approach a girl and chat her
Then, in the space of 14 days, I had one date every night of the
week! My social life was completely transformed OVERNIGHT! We
often read about get rich quick schemes promising overnight
results, yet we know these are mostly scams. Most things
offering instant fixes should be treated with caution.
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