Asian Girls Dating - Who Says Asian Girls Online Dating's Only
Asian Girls Dating is becoming very popular !
Until a good friend suggested that we try it. I had to admit, I
was curious, but wasn't online dating for hideous losers and
people who had something to hide? Wasn't it only for those who
couldn't get a date the 'old fashioned' way?
I let my friend talk me into browsing some pictures on one of
the more popular dating sites. I had to say, there were some
pretty decent looking men on there.
Their profiles made them sound like fairly mentally stable human
beings. I had to admit that the single thing was getting really
I had done the bar scene (as we all have), had friends try to
'hook me up' with some other dateless, picky single person
(though, why some of them figured they had the right to be
picky, I have no idea), with no success.
Online dating, here I come. I figured "What do I have to lose?"
At the absolute worst, I'd meet more of the same type of losers
that I'd been meeting. At best, I'd meet someone that I was
actually compatible with who could also relate to me.
I had another dilemma with regard to the dating thing. I had
been divorced for about a year at the time, and I have 2
children. Now, I know that you ladies who are divorced with kids
can completely relate to what I'm saying here.
Finding a decent man is difficult enough, add to that the fact
that I'm looking for a decent man whom I can trust to be around
my children. Finding a man anywhere on this planet, that I
wouldn't mind having my son emulate, is like trying to find a
pair of Manolos on sale at Sears.
Anyway, I signed up with my friend on one of the 'bigger' dating
sites. I met one dude, who said in his profile that he was
5'10", with an athletic build. He had an attractive face, he was
divorced, and he had 3 children who were presently in his
He sent me an email. We corresponded via email for about 2
weeks, after which time, we decided to meet for lunch at a local
restaurant. He arrived at the restaurant earlier than I did.
Early enough to have been already seated when I got there.
He barely stood up to shake my hand upon saying 'hello', which I
thought was a little weird, but whatever. We talked from lunch
time until the hour turned into dinner time.
The conversation was going so great, that we decided to stay for
dinner, after which time, we decided to take in a movie. When
the waitress brought the bill, he paid it and as we stood up to
leave, I saw why he was already seated at the restaurant when I
got there, and why he didn't fully stand up to greet me.
This dude was about 5'7" tall! Now, I'm 5'4", and in the boots
that I was wearing, I was nearly taller than he was! I was so
cheezed that I immediately lost my taste for the movie, made up
some excuse about not feeling well all of a sudden (it must have
been the fish), and boogied on atta' there.
On my way home, I thought, "Is this what online dating is?
Dating loser after liar, never finding that 'one'?" I'm not
saying that this dude was a loser because he was short.
The entire problem for me, exists in the fact that he LIED. I
can't stand liars. If he lied about something as obvious as his
height, what else would he lie about?
I learned very quickly that when it comes to online dating, one
has to be extremely specific about what one wants, and one has
to stick to her guns. Not that some of those who read those
specifications give a hoot anyway.
I put in my profile that I wasn't interested in dating anyone
over 45, and I got mail from men well past that age on a regular
basis. I learned that I had to be assertive almost to the point
of being aggressive when it came to dating online. I had to say
what I meant, and mean what I said.
As a result, I'm dating someone (8 months now) who meets every
piece of the criteria that I set out to find in a man. He's
physically attractive (Yes, it DOES MATTER), and Lord help me,
he's as smart as a computer (brains makes me weak).
He's also an amazing person inside, and he gets along well with
my children. We live at completely opposite ends of the city,
and if it weren't for bumping into each other online, I'm sure
we would never have met.
I chose to think about online dating as follows; when I'm in a
bar, and some loser tries out his lame pickup line on me, I have
to respond to him in some manner, right? When I'm dating online,
I don't have to respond at all! I have more men to choose from
than those in my immediate circle of friends and associates, and
am able to choose from as far away as I want to.
If you're thinking about doing the dating thing online, go for
it! If you're smart, you have nothing to lose, and absolutely
everything to gain.
I'm Dao Jones from Thailand, founder of Asian-Girls-Dating.com.
A unique dating site with writing, dating and culture tips, as
well as lots of information about the special characteristics of
If you want to know more about Asian girls go to my favourite
Click here to find lovely girls from
and - Phil
ippines - Japa
n - South
Korea - Vi
etnam - China
g Kong - Sin
gapore - Mal
aysia - Taiwan
a - India<
/a> - In
OR GO TO OUR ADULT DATING PAGES :
Japan - South
Korea - Vi
etnam - C
hina - H
ong Kong - S
ingapore - Malaysi
a - Taiwan
sia - India<
/a> - In