Thai Girls Dating : A Thai Girl is Giving Her Opinion !
Thai Girls dating is becoming very popular !
1. Western guys don't have access to the same type of woman
that Thai man have.
This was I think quite true until 10 years ago. But especially
with advent of internet many decent girls (I don't like the word
good girl, sounds as if we are little kiddies) now find it very
easy to "meet" people from other countries. Many use apps like
msg, email, Asian girls dating sites etc. This doesn't mean that
all the girls online are decent but big proportion is.
2. For me it was like this: until 10 years ago I never thought
about meeting and marrying farang men. My future would be
marrying a Thai. Then I discovered internet and chatting etc. I
soon met farang guys on the net and when I got to know some of
them better I found out they really are different from Thai
guys. More about that later.
The reason I started chatting and emailing with the farang was
that I wanted to improve my English. I thought it a fun and good
way to get better in English. When I got to know some farang
guys a bit better (through email and chat) I found out that I
could talk about everything with these guys.
This was big change for me who was only used to talking to Thai
guys. Thai or most Thai guys still have traditional view towards
girls. Girls are a commodity for them and are below them. It is
very hard to talk to (most) Thai guys about everything. Most are
not really open and will hide/not talk about certain things with
girls. I found the farang guys very open, liberal, it was really
a difference. A few years later I met my husband on the net, and
the rest is history.
2. Thai girls are conservative by nature.
This is true and not true. The true part is that a decent girl
will not be easy to get, not for farang and not for a Thai guy.
But this doesn't mean that we will never choose a farang. If a
farang guy is nice, polite and understanding of us, we might
prefer the farang over a Thai guy.
Why do many decent Thai girls still choose a Thai guy?
This is because we are a little bit lazy. Most Thai girls like
the easy way, and the easy way is marrying a Thai guy. The Thai
guy knows our language, culture, etc. And also he is not likely
to take us to another country. Also our family will not (or most
of the time not) have problems with it. When we marry a farang
guy, we have to do a big effort to make it succeed, all decent
Thai girls know that. And maybe we will have to go to his
country, which we don't need to cos we have our own money,
career, family etc. It's a big sacrifice.
3. It's almost pointless for farang to be handsome in Thailand
Farangs never have access to the same kind of girls that Thai
guys have. It doesn't matter if farang is smelly, fat and old or
if he's young and very handsome, every farang fishes from the
same pond. Further he states that farang always date non-typical
Thai girls meaning only poor Isaan girls who are dark etc.
This statement is sure not true. Even though I said previously
that many (nice) Thai girls don't date farang, cos they choose
the easy way so to say, it still happens very often (and more
often in recent years) that also Thai girls from middle or high
class background are actually considering or already dating
Now about farang being young and handsome in Thailand. I can
guarantee that many if not most what calls "typical Thai girl"
or nice girls if they see a young and handsome farang would like
him to become her boyfriend. If that happens depends on her (not
lazy, wanna make an effort etc) and on him. (polite, friendly
looking, not shy etc) On the other hand, if a nice girl sees an
old and smelly farang, of course she would not dream of him to
become her boyfriend, I think that is normal. So it's not
pointless for a farang to be young and handsome in Thailand he
will have many changes to date nice Thai girls but he has to
look for them not in the bars but in the good places.
One other thing. It can still be hard for a young farang to find
a nice girl in Thailand when he's alone, because many Thai girls
are shy and traditional when it comes to western men. They also
don't tend to trust the farang guy very easily. If however the
farang has nice and good Thai male friends also from the higher
middle class or middle class, they can introduce him to the nice
If those Thai male friends are honest and good, the farang
doesn't has to be too afraid that they will introduce him to bad
girls cos the Thai guy would lose terrible face if something bad
happened to the farang because of the girl. Of course it can
still happen not every Thai guy knows his female friends 100%
but it is not likely.
Thai girls will be more comfortable and confident when they are
introduced to a farang by a Thai guy (a Thai guy the girl
already knows and respects) and then it might be very easy for
the farang to date her.
I'm Dao Jones from Thailand, founder of Asian-Girls-Dating.com.
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