7 Proven Ways You Can Catch a Cheating Lover
If an outsider attacked your lover, would you stop him? Would
you defend yourself and your spouse against an attack?
A cheating lover who breaks a promise to be faithful is
literally attacking your relationship. If you suspect this is
happening, you owe it to your love to defend it. Otherwise you
will either never really be able to trust your mate, or you
won't even realize that you've been a sap until your partner
walks out the door...forever.
If you're worried that your mate is cheating, keep your head
together and start collecting evidence. Whatever you do, don't
let your partner know you suspect until you have some good,
solid facts to back up your suspicions. A cheating lover, backed
into a corner, usually finds an excuse to leave the relationship
precipitously. And a faithful lover does not need to ever know
there was suspicion.
Here are seven proven, tried-and-true ways you can catch a
1) The single biggest tip-off is in sudden behavior changes that
continue sporadically. A work routine that has changed, such as
staying late at the office or long lunches could be a tell-tale
clue. Call him, just to see if he's there. Even drop in on him,
once you suspect him, at the office, bringing some cookies or a
present for an excuse.
2) Does she pick on you, looking for things to criticize? This
may mean she's building a case to justify leaving the
relationship for good. Does she create a fight then leave the
house in a huff and stay away for hours? Warning!
3) Are there changes in his appearance? Does he take more
interest in it, dressing better and being more careful with
grooming in general? Has his style of dress gone from
conservative to, say, Mobster Mannequin or Lounge Lizard? Time
to open your eyes... and keep them open.
4) Does she seem to suddenly get a lot of cell phone calls she
avoids taking in your presence? It's probably the other man.
5) Is he suddenly going out with his male friends, supposedly?
Ask him where he's going, and go there to check. But be
surreptitious; stay in the shadows!
6) These days, there are lots of high-tech gadgets and methods
for capturing an adulterer. You can actually track every
keystroke in a computer, for example, every call on a cell
phone... and you can do these things without a trace. Installing
spy-cams is an option, or hiring a private detective.
7) Have you noticed an abrupt and lasting change in your sex
life? Is he holding out on you physically? Do you find his
excuses downright lame? This is red-flag time.
A monogamous relationship is a serious commitment and accusing a
partner of adultery is a serious charge. An open mind, balance
and neutrality are the watchwords.
Now. Memorize this article and fight back for your
relationship... the smart way.