What You Lead With, You Are Valued For
We see this phenomenon all around us. Cleavage, short skirts,
body piercing, sensual tattoos and suggestive conversations
clearly show that ours is a culture saturated with a mindset
that life revolves around our sexual appetite.
Oh, for the innocence of days gone by before we lost our ability
Are we confusing desire and longing?
A Britney Spears music video at 2:00am may awaken desire, but it
does nothing to satisfy the cry of the human heart for intimacy,
love, acceptance, compatibility, oneness and commitment.
Our site message is that the human heart longs to be wanted for
a lifetime of nights and not just a night of a lifetime. Are we
selling this longing short?
Stop and think for a moment.
Have you noticed that marriage is universal? Have you noticed
that marriage isn't a hard sale at all? We don't have to go to
any country in the world and hold seminars explaining what it
means to get married. From the most populated nation in the
world, to the most remote, the human heart longs for and desires
So, it really shouldn't surprise us when we hear that Jennifer
Lopez may be married again. The human heart longs to connect!
Let me bring some closure to all this with a question.
If I mention the following names, what comes to your mind?
Pamela Anderson Britney Spears Hugh Hefner Larry Flint
That's right, leading-with-the-body!
What we lead with is what we are valued for. If we lead with the
body, we are valued for the body. If we lead with the mind, we
are valued for the mind. If we lead with the spirit, we are
valued for the spirit.
What do you want to be remembered for?
Are you living for desire or are you living for longing?
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Stanley J. Leffew ALL RIGHTS RESERVED!