What To Do Instead...A Message For The Broken Hearted
"The truth that makes men free is for the most part the
truth which men prefer not to hear." Herbert Agar
It may not be exactly what you want to hear, but I think this is
especially true when it comes to relationships. The more
emotional the situation the more truth there seems to be in
Are you wondering just what this has to do with small business
If you've read my other articles on this topic you already know
what direction I'm taking you in-) I am a small business
advocate that encourages its use as a platform for learning the
lessons of responsibility, the best part of ambition...I want
everyone to know what it feels like to dedicate each day to
giving expression and focus to your passion!
I encourage those of you crying because some person didn't love
you as much as you wanted to pay special attention. If you know
someone in that boat, send them a link to this article.
There is an element of "you are alone" that we must all confront
and accept as a part of life, instead of constantly seeking
validation of that reality's denial.
No one else can enter your pain with you, nor can they fully
enter your joy. Those are internal experiences. Not even the
most ideal partnership can spare you from that reality.
Discovering the person you love is not who you thought can feel
like a kick has landed in your chest. Among the unfortuate side
effects are loss of appetite, insomnia, constant weeping, etc.
But what do you do when you're tired of crying because it feels
like your eyes will pop out? Or when you're just sick of feeling
sorry for yourself. No amount of crying will change what has
How long it takes for you to feel better depends totally on you.
When will you make up your mind to get on with living?
Hopefully you'll know where to turn when you've had enough of
thinking in circles and getting nowhere. Start by reading
product reviews, strategic development materials, and mapping
out the plan for your success.
What do you do next? You build your business. Those restless
moments when you want desperately to call and beg him to come
back are better used if applied to a productive aspect of
building your enterprise.
Can't sleep? Then get to work on your marketing plan.
Why? Because you have to begin taking actions that empower and
validate you ...the life you create for yourself. Focusing on
your business is a way to begin working and focusing on your
future, independent of self defeating relationships.
This approach to your recovery has many long term benefits.
Chief among them, it helps you become oriented with the concepts
of relationship valuation that will enhance all of your future
relationships, professional and personal.
With diligent conscious attention this can be an exercise in
breaking old relationship patterns by creating a better
relationship with yourself. Building your business is an
investment in your future at the most fundamental level.
Attention to your material well being is a basic expression of
self love when you intend it to be so.
This is why entrepreneurship works as an effective intervention.
The pay off is obvious. Your business success is the key to
affording the financial freedom and lifestyle you envision. Stop
postponing your good until someone else shows up. You're already
here and I know just where you can get started.