WHERE DO YOU WANT TO GO?
Cheshire-Puss,"... said Alice, "would you tell me, please, which
way I ought to go from here?" "That depends a good deal on where
you want to get to," said the Cat. "I don't much care where---"
Said Alice. "Then it doesn't matter which way you go," said the
Cat. "---so long as I get somewhere," Alice added as an
explanation. "Oh, you're sure to do that," said the Cat, "if you
only walk long enough."
-- Lewis Carroll, "Alice's Adventures in Wonderland"--
There are so many people like Alice. They wander around knowing
they want something different, but they just move from one thing
to the next without much thought. These Wanderers may come
across their own Cheshire cats who are more than willing to
share "their own" advice.
Person "A" says, "Well, if I were you, I would