Cheshire-Puss,"... said Alice, "would you tell me, please, which way I ought to go from here?" "That depends a good deal on where you want to get to," said the Cat. "I don't much care where---" Said Alice. "Then it doesn't matter which way you go," said the Cat. "---so long as I get somewhere," Alice added as an explanation. "Oh, you're sure to do that," said the Cat, "if you only walk long enough." -- Lewis Carroll, "Alice's Adventures in Wonderland"-- ----------- There are so many people like Alice. They wander around knowing they want something different, but they just move from one thing to the next without much thought. These Wanderers may come across their own Cheshire cats who are more than willing to share "their own" advice. Person "A" says, "Well, if I were you, I would