THE KEY ELEMENTS OF DETERMINATION AND SELF DISCIPLINE ON THE
PATH TO SUCCESS
"If a man has talent and cannot use it, he has failed. If he has
a talent and uses only half of it, he has partly failed. If he
has a talent and learns somehow to use the whole of it, he has
gloriously succeeded and has a satisfaction and a triumph few
men ever know." -- Thomas Wolfe
I think the key words in the path to success are: DESIRE,
DETERMINATION, DEDICATION and SELF DISCIPLINE. Because
everything starts out with the "seed of desire" - the reason why
I started out writing - wanting to make a difference through my
words. Others are FOCUS and a SINGLE-MINDEDNESS (in pursuit of
one's goals). PERSERVERANCE TOO (in large "heaps".The words
'determination' and (by association) 'ruthlessness', suggesta
person who wants success and power for it's own sake. This is
another sort of obsession. However, a desire for power, riches
and fame may have virtually nothing to do with it. By the way, I
feel that not all successful people and business executives are
ruthless - they are not all "money grabbing corporate raiders".
Most of them are "normal and good family men", who have
perfectly natural reactions in that they hate firing employees.
"Soft gentle souls!"
Determination is often at its greatest, when a person is
enslaved by an idea and wants to see the idea work. Me! There is
a further sort of determination: the determination to see things
through, to finish the job. For example, a compulsion to qualify
for the PGA golf tour in America, to finish a building, or in my
case to finish writing this manuscript...and then get it
published... which is the hardest part of all. Especially with
the way I write!
I suppose all these characteristics are somewhat abnormal;
because so-called "normal" people are more passive and less
focussed than us "obsessive types". They are regarded as being
less "mad" by the majority of the public, who engage in more
ordinary activities and have more "normal" occupations.
This thought leads me on to another question: Is the top-most
level of success the only one worth having, or is it sufficient
to merely enjoy sport for it's own sake (even the
professionals)? Does every player entering Wimbledon really
think he or she is going to win the Championship? Or is it
success itself just to play in the Wimbledon tournament? How
realistic is the vision of success to YOU? It all depends on how
you define success for yourself...which is the thought with
which I introduced this chapter.
I believe that a strong SENSE OF DIRECTION or PURPOSE IN LIFE is
a very important ingredient for success. So too is a persistent
To be successful in whatever endeavour one chooses, first of all
requires a great of talent. It might be latent, waiting to be
uncovered. Perhaps, you are not even aware of it. I wonder how
many budding Ayrton Senna's and Michael Schumachers there are
around, who just have never had the opportunity (mainly in the
form of money) to race cars? Motor racing is certainly the
"ultimate rich boy's sport".
To finally reap the rewards of success, obviously talent has to
be there on the long slow road to success - and at the time of
success...but has it always been there? Chess geniuses,
athletes, tennis players, architects, athletes, scientists,
dress designers and advertising creative directors. These
"creative types"! There can be talent deep within; but there has
to be hard work and training before the talent bears fruition -
so that it can succeed against (all) others...and this often
takes a great deal of time to bear fruit.
I believe in life it's firstly a matter of finding your "niche",
then unlocking your unique talents...and finding it is the most
difficult part. You may not even be aware you have any special
gifts. That is the "key" to success. As I mentioned, I found
whatever little ones I had through a process of serendipity...
and it's probably my one and only talent! My writing, I mean.
Once uncovered, it's then a question of building on it and
maximising it. Maria Callas, the opera singer with "a voice like
an angel" put a great deal of effort into maximising her talent.
Sometimes a phenemenol talent, like a Juan Manuel Fangio*, Jim
Clark or Ayrton Senna soars above all others; but in most cases
it's the effort and total dedication put in to make the most of
one's natural talents, that puts an individual into the realm of
a superstar - someone who is on a different level, a cut above
the best of the rest. * Fangio won the World Driver's
Championship five times.
One can sometimes substitute hard work, training, experience and
strategy for flair. Nice word that 'flair'. Could be a girl's
name. Some detectives are like "Mr Plod", while a few sleuths
have the natural insight of a Sherlock Holmes. Most others have
to get results through hard detailed work in uncovering cases. I
don't yet know whether I'm a "natural" writer or a methodical
plodder, a "gatherer and passer-onner of useless" information
through a great deal of effort. Perhaps only time will tell!
I might have mentioned before (once, twice or ten times) that
this manuscript has been written for anyone: from the most lowly
amateur to the real 'pros' in the sporting world. o no matter
how lowly your abilities, make the most of them. As I mentioned
already, a positive attitude to life is all- important. A
positive attitude says that your natural talent can be
maximised. It also says that without further effort, natural
talent will be wasted. I do like repeating myself: for emphasis
primarily and as a sign of oncroaching senility too.
Sometimes persistent effort alone won't succeed in getting you
to the top - only sheer talent will do that... together with
consistent effort to keep you at "the top of the tree". Never
mind - JUST TRY TO IMPROVE yourself and simply DO YOUR BEST at