Living Your Life Mission
In last week's article
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can in fact make it easier to attract your ideal relationship.
That's because simply living your life mission automatically
attracts your ideal partner.
Sounds simple, right? Well it is and it isn't. It's simple
because people who are compatible with you will be drawn to you.
But living your life mission is not always effortless.
I believe to live your life mission you need to consistently
take three specific steps. These are:
1. Trust and believe in yourself above all else. Trust that what
you have deemed as your life mission is exactly that. Trust this
even when others tell you it's not so. Trust when people who are
incompatible start to move away. Hold onto your life mission
during difficult times and decisions. Use it as a guiding light
when you are lost. Believe in yourself.
2. Reorient your life around your life mission. Does your job
reflect your life mission? Does your community? Your hobbies?
Your conduct? If not, start making small, incremental changes
oriented around your life mission. Small changes are easier to
integrate over time and will make the most difference.
3. Use your life mission to discern correct choices in all
circumstances. When choices come up about your career,
lifestyle, relationships and conduct, measure them against your
life mission rather than against what you want in the moment, or
what you feel obligated to do. Always ask yourself, "Will this
choice support what I am up to in my life?" If the answer is no,
make another choice. If the answer is yes, go for it!
Living a life truly oriented around your life mission will give
you a fulfilling life, one that you love. And, when you live
such a life, you become very attractive to your ideal partner!
Your Relationship Coach, Rinatta Paries
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