Time Management Confrontation
Confronting the issues that hold us back is useful in managing
time. We all have fears, doubts, failures, inconsistencies,
illnesses, accidents, incidents, and so on. There is no way to
escape these negative truths in life.
Therefore, what can we do to contribute to our time, is manage
it accordingly to life's limitations and inabilities. If you
think you are going to walk through life without something
happening to you or someone you love, you had better rethink,
since you are letting yourself down and wasting time doing it.
Life is REAL! It is not a game of truth and dare, it is a matter
of what we face each day, and sometimes we have no clue what we
will face. Time is one of the most valuable gifts that we have
and we can use it wisely or waste our time relentlessly. No
matter what our current situation something is going to happen
and we must learn confrontation skills to avoid complete
failure. We can look at many examples in our life, or in our
past.
Let's say we had a time management plan and it was working
smoothly, but one fatal day a terrorist attacked our
neighborhood, or a storm blew our hard work out the door. What
are you going to do? Did you calculate in your time management
plan a solution for disaster? If you are not getting off the
ground in a short time after these disasters hit then the answer
is obvious. What do you do when you fall and break your leg?
Does you time management scheme have a solution? If it doesn't
you are going in to set back mode which is obviously going to
take longer to rebuild. Regardless of the situation, confronting
the reality is the main key to surviving the realities of life.
In order to confront life, we must look at all angles of
realities that may impose themselves in our time management
plans.
In order to achieve a healthy level of confrontation is to
understand what it really means to confront your problems. Most
of us have natural abilities to face what is put in front of us,
but when it comes to situations out of our control...this is
when we often loose control. Loosing control is obviously a step
backwards in our time management plans. Control on the other
hand is having the ability to work toward a future and at the
same time realizing that the future promises, us nothing and
that anything can happen at any given moment in time. This is
reality! Once you face reality, confrontation will come easy.
After studying human beings for the most part of my life, I
observed closely as people denied there faults, feared risks and
challenges, intimidated by their mistakes, reluctant to stand up
and tell another person they were wrong, and failed to allow
them self to control their own being.
The source I found was FEAR. Fear seems to play a large role in
all aspects of human beings. If we are constantly afraid, how
can we allow our selves to manage time? We can't because our
time is being wasted on what we may or may not have control of.
Therefore, the solution to diverting a good time management
scheme is stepping back and looking in.
Confrontation is telling our selves that it is ok to make
mistakes. When we make mistakes, we learn and can move ahead.
Confrontations is letting us know that we have the right to
confront any problem that steps in front of us, and we have a
degree of power to change what has happen to us or someone we
love. We have the right to tell someone that there influence is
provoking our thoughts, and we need them to stand back and take
a look at what they are saying to others. We have the right to
stand up for our own beliefs and hold firm in our power to
resurrect our selves when accidents, incidents, illnesses,
failures, or other negative connotations arise. We have the
power within us to move forward. There is nothing in life that
can stop us from reaching our goals in life, but our selves and
God.