Baby's First Days At Home
The first few days home from the hospital are just as important
to you as they are to your baby. As new parents you will have
gone through an exciting birth that will have left you
breathless and exhilarated. As a new mother you will be
emotionally and physically exhausted. As a new father you will
be overwhelmed by your new responsibilities. The first days at
home are a time to take a deep breath, sit back and relax, and
take some time just for you.
During your first days at home it may be wise to limit the
amount of visitors that you welcome into your home. Other than
your immediate family and good friends you might want to ask
other friends to wait a week or two before they descend on you
with gifts and wanting to hold the new baby. You need time to
recuperate and settle into the routine that a sleeping, feeding,
and often crying baby brings into your life.
As a new mother you will need to pay particular attention to the
way that you are feeling so that those "baby blues" don't creep
up and surprise you unexpectedly. It is normal to feel a bit out
of sorts and sad for the first couple of weeks after giving
birth. Your body is going through some major physical changes
after the birth of your baby. Your hormones will be changing and
you likely will be feeling a lack of sleep. All of this can
affect the way that you feel. You should be patient with
yourself, understand that all these feelings are normal, and
that in a couple of weeks things will feel better for you. If
you find that you are feeling more and more depressed, and find
it difficult to care for yourself and your family, you should
consult your doctor so that he/she can determine if you are
suffering from a condition called postpartum depression.
Symptoms of postpartum depression include:
Overwhelming feelings of sadness and depression accompanied by
crying.
Having little or no energy.
Feelings of guilt and worthlessness.
Having no interest in your baby or being overly concerned and
worried about your baby.
Weight gain accompanied with overeating.
Weight loss accompanied by not eating.
Feeling afraid of hurting yourself or your baby.
Insomnia.
Oversleeping.
During the first few days at home your family will be adjusting
to the additional member of your family. If you have other
children at home you may be dealing with feelings of jealousy as
the new baby takes center stage. Make sure that you include your
other children in the day-to-day activities that are part of the
new baby's routine. Let older children help with diaper
changing, feeding, and just sitting and holding the new baby if
they are old enough to do so. This is your time to adjust to the
changes in your life and settle into a comfortable routine... at
least for the moment!