Goodbye My BULLIED Baby
Victim of the school bully
Many parents feel the pain for their bullied baby and feel
helpless to make matters better either because the child is to
afraid to name the perpetrators or denies blatantly that they
are are a victim of abuse regardless of the bruises torn
clothing and the fresh black eye every week.
Children wrapped up in their winter woollies for school because
mum is protecting them from Jack Frost.
In summer mum's protect with sun block and then protection takes
place again with a healthy lunchbox full of Jamie Oliver's
goodies. But are we the parents protecting them the right way.
The smile on your child's face is about to be wiped off by the
school bully as he/she waves goodbye to mummy and daddy at the
door.
The only company that your child has on his/her way to school is
fear, fear of what is around the corner will it be a fist or a
kick. My heart aches to think the mental pain this child who
forever looking over their shoulder must be feeling.
We all know fear where our stomach fills with butterflies
followed by spewing up the guts. For god sake how are these kids
coping with the mental physical pain Will it ever end; even
tortured by nightmares in their sleep and in some unfortunate
cases the abused victim makes sure they never wake again.
Tackle a bully with a bully I say instead of committing them to
a correction centre where life is made far too easy. Bullies
aren't so hard when confronted by a victim's big brother/sister
or member of the family. If you are a victim of abuse please
talk to mum dad or teacher.
Do not be afraid of the bully now you have spoken out, your
tormentor will still cause pain, only this time you have the
last laugh because you gave them a reason and into the bargain
they get to look over their shoulder now the authorities are
onto them.
I can assure the bully that memories of their playground days
will come back to haunt them. You will grow up hating yourself.
No doubt you have nice side so put it to use to gain friends not
enemies. The next blow you cast could be fatal.
Parents check daily for signs of abuse, you may notice a change
in personality marks like bruising or cuts. Look for ripped
clothing or money going missing, your child may be funding the
bully's pocket. This is a fragile situation so handle with care,
we do not want the child to feel they are being bullied by their
own flesh and blood.
Offsprings leave and marry and unfortunately abuse may continue.
Parents are not immortal so when the time comes to leave our
kids to defend for them selves is out of our control.
Put a protection plan into force today with online education.
Today' society is about survival. By giving your child a decent
education they get to make decisions for them selves not have
them made by others. Online education is the only way forward
and if your child feels that enough is enough and wants to make
a stand then the art of self defence can be found online too.
Want revenge on the playground bully without using violence.
Then success is the sweetest revenge and if that means more
education on how to excel then sweet is sweeter than sweet.
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