Hello World: Baby's Third Month Guide
Remember how you wished your baby would learn there is more to
life than crying, feeding and sleeping? Your wishes are coming
true. Your baby's third month will see her become much more
interactive. So much so with some babies, that parents secretly
sigh, "Why doesn't she ever sleep?" Wonder what to expect in the
third month?
Good night baby
Worried that your baby is still not sleeping through the night?
Most three month-old babies need at least one feed in the middle
of the night. You can try to shorten those night- time feedings
by making sure baby's getting enough day long and cutting down
the amount baby gets at night.
Co-sleeping is convenient for those nighttime feeds. But
research has consistently shown that parents and babies both
sleep less. The reason? Your baby's restlessness might prompt
you to wake and feed him when he probably would have drifted off
to sleep by himself.
More active and more interactive too
Exhausted after a long day of work? Trust baby's genuine smiles
to cheer you. Your baby now probably recognizes her parents,
whom she rewards with smiles, and sometimes even ah- goos and
laughter. Talk to your baby whenever you are around her to hone
her language skills. She loves it when you imitate her sounds.
Your baby can now perhaps raise her chest, supported by her
arms, when she lies on her stomach. She can focus on objects and
reach for them. A three-month old baby occasionally might able
to roll over one way.
When you visit your doctor for baby's shots, it is a great idea
to prepare a list of questions to ask. Babies reach
developmental milestones at different ages, so desist the
temptation to compare your baby with another.
Feeding on demand
Parenting on schedule is definitely easier on you than parenting
on demand. But scheduling a baby must not be taken to an
extreme. Denying a baby a feed because it is not time yet can
diminish milk supply and lower weight gain. Parenting against
your philosophy is never effective. As always, follow your
instinct and baby's cues to set a successful yet flexible
schedule.
Stimulating books, games and toys for baby
Every toy you buy for your three month-old baby does not have to
bring out his Einstein factor. A mixture of fun and learning
works best. Attractive colors, funny sounds, mobiles and rattles
interest him. It is never too early to read to baby even though
all he seems to want is to grab the book and chew on it.
Preventing Sudden Infant Death Syndrome
You can significantly reduce the risk of SIDS or cot death by
putting baby to sleep on her back, using a firm mattress, and
preventing overheating. It might be a good idea to learn infant
CPR techniques if you are worried about SIDS.
Choosing a babysitter
It is a good idea to let baby get used to other people besides
mom and dad. Even if you are not going back to work, an
occasional night out will work wonders for your relationship
with your spouse. There are several child-care alternatives you
can choose from. Whatever you choose, watch out for any changes
or signs of discomfort in your baby. Your baby's disposition is
the best indicator of the quality of childcare he is getting.
In baby's third month, her horizons are slowly expanding.
Entertain your baby and get entertained in return. You are just
beginning to reap the rewards of parenting.