Wise ways to discipline
First of all there are some very important factors to consider
for discipline to work well. Without them, your efforts to
effectively teach your children will ultimately fail.
1. INFLUENCE: You cannot teach what you do not live. For
example, you cannot teach your child not to yell at you, if you
yell at your child. Much of what our children learn is through
observation and imitation. Our babies and children watch us
intently, and our influence over their lives is immeasurable.
Every day, remind yourself that you are a leader and an example
to your children. (and remember that when you blow it, as we all
do, the best example to set is to say sorry, have a cuddle, take
a big breath, and move on.)
2. ENVIRONMENT: Babies and children are more receptive to
discipline when we create a WARM, SAFE AND STIMULATING
environment. Warmth means our children know they are cherished,
valued and approved of. We make it clear that when they
misbehave, it is the behaviour we disapprove of, not them. We
show affection liberally, and use affectionate language. We
monitor the