Helping Your Children Develop Their Self-Discipline *
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We want our children to do the right thing, especially when they
are out with their friends. We want to believe in them, but
somehow, we don't feel certain that they would.
Have you ever asked yourself why you feel and act that way?
Maybe the answer lies in the fact that, although you intend to,
you rarely teach them how to develop their self-discipline. Or
maybe it is because your parents never taught you how to develop
yours.
Well, it's never too late to learn. Here are fourteen principles
to set you on the right track:
1. Natural and logical consequences require children to be
responsible for their own behavior.
2. Reward and punishment deny children the opportunity to make
their own decisions and to be responsible for their own behavior.
3. Distinguish the differences between the punishment approach
and the logical consequences approach to developing their
self-discipline: