Making Your Home The Center Of Activity
As our children grow up, there are certain boundaries that
naturally loosen as they become more mature and independent.
When - and - if these boundaries ease up, all depends on how
responsible each individual child is. When that point comes,
your child's peers will seem to dominate their world more than
you. There is a way for you to still guide your child without
domineering them. That way is to make your home the center of
their activities. By doing this you will learn who your child's
friends are, how they act around one another and most
importantly; what they are doing. Make your home inviting to
your children's friends. Encourage your child to invite them to
activities. Some ideas of things they could do in your home are:
*watch movies (enabling you to oversee content) *have BBQ's
(kids can bring their own meat to lesson costs) *swimming
parties ( if you own a pool or are in a community with access to
one) *watch sports - basketball, Olympics, Super-Bowl, World
Series, etc. *have dances (furniture can be pushed aside for a
few hours) *study groups (it can make homework more fun as long
as it IS being done!) *holidays - N. Year's Eve, Memorial Day,
4th of July, etc. *dinners - (how about sharing your family
dinner with a friend once in awhile?)
Be available not only to welcome your child's peers in your
home, but to get to know their parents as well. The price to pay
for a fuller and noiser house, sometimes, is well worth the
knowledge and tools it will equip you with in guiding your
growing child into a safe and trustworthy adult.